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"I'm lucky that she's my oldest best friend."


Location: New York
Year: Mid-1970s
Well, first of all, check out her Afro! Really, could anything be cooler? My hair wishes it could get on her level. Also, my mom was (and remains) so passionate about civil rights and equality — for Puerto Ricans, for Black people. I’m really proud that she passed that fire down to me. Nothing could ever stop Mami’s drive. I’ve always been a bit nerdy and awkward, but her self-confidence shines through every photo. She just has an aura about her that shines like gold, you know? It radiates from the inside out. And that megawatt smile really doesn’t hurt. She’s about 19 or 20 years old in the picture.
My mom and I are funniest when we’re together. She’s a single mom, so growing up most days it was usually just the two of us, and now it’s like we have our secret language and shorthand for everything. We can crack each other up with just an eyebrow quirk or a hand gesture. We will bring back catch phrases from years ago and incorporate them like they just happened yesterday. When we really get going on a story, we constantly end up talking over each other (I’m usually going a mile a minute, she’s more purposeful with her words). It’s been like that since I was a little girl. She just… gets me. Maybe it’s a little cliché to say on Mother’s Day, but I’m lucky that she’s my oldest best friend. -Carmen Phillips