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Empress Of - "When I'm With Him"
Falling out of love is a fundamentally lonely and bewildering experience, one that Empress Of’s Lorely Rodriguez captures beautifully on “When I’m With Him,” the first single from her sophomore LP Us on Terrible Records. Alternating between English and Spanish with a seamless effortlessness immediately recognizable to diaspora kids, Rodriguez paints a devastating picture of baffling limbo in a romantic relationship.
In her previous work, Rodriguez’s process was insular, doing everything herself – writing, producing, mixing – start to finish. But for Us, she brought in collaborators and co-producers for the first time, a vulnerable and new songwriting experience. It paid off: co-produced along with Jim-E Stack and Dan Nigro, the song’s warm, cushy synths and melancholy piano chords paired with a driving, steady beat and the vocals’ radiant melodies make for synth-pop gold.
The visual is a love letter to Rodriguez’s native LA: sunlight, Dickies, backyard hangouts by the clothesline, arid climate plant life, and the queer people of color who drive some of the cities’ most vibrant art scenes. Its muted pastels and sunny captures set the mood: neither sad nor happy, disorienting but not directionless.
The whole process was a leap of faith – collaborating with others, making her city part of her creative process, tackling a difficult to portray subject. Rodriguez landed on a masterpiece. – Verónica Bayetti Flores